'Don't be idle, don't give up and lots of sex': How Patrick Dempsey and Jillian Fink got rid of rough patch

On Wednesday, November 16, at the El Capitan Theatre in Los Angeles for the world premiere of "Disenchanted," Patrick Dempsey and Jillian Fink reportedly made an impressive pair. The couple, who have been married for more than 20 years and have three kids together, were spotted posing for pictures at the occasion. According to The Daily Mail, the 56-year-old "Grey's Anatomy" actor donned a black double-breasted suit with pinstripes, which he teamed with a light blue shirt and a pair of black shoes. [caption id="attachment_63436" align="aligncenter" width="500"] Getty Images[/caption] Before Fink joined him, the actor first posed on the red carpet by himself while looking stunning in a black off-the-shoulder outfit. According to reports, the celebrity hairstylist and makeup artist finished off her ensemble with a bracelet, a necklace with a large pendant, and a pair of black open-toe heels. She wore clean, light makeup and kept her hair open and uncomplicated. The pair appeared to be quite happy and in love while having their picture taken. Their union, though, apparently hasn't always been a bed of roses. Dempsey and Fink got married in 1999 after becoming friends in 1994. [caption id="attachment_63442" align="aligncenter" width="1200"] Getty Images[/caption] The actor from "Made of Honor" is rumored to have visited her salon when they first met. The mother of twin sons Sullivan and Darby, 15, and daughters Talula, 20, and Sullivan and Talula told PEOPLE in 2002 about their first meeting: "I was astonished [when he walked in for an appointment], but at the same time, I was pleased because he was so cute."

 

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The two exchanged vows in a farmhouse in Maine, and it was said that Dempsey "started bawling" when he saw Fink as his wife. As they became parents to three kids, their love and dedication to one another strengthened. I'm constantly amazed by their insight and their observations, the race car driver once said about his kids. It's fascinating and enjoyable to think of responses to their inquiries. And the questions become more challenging!